Wednesday, 9 December 2009

Silly season.

As we are rapidly approaching silly season I thought I'd share a couple of gems with you!

First:

Girl 1: My mum said men can marry men and women can marry women.
Girl 2: My mum said that only mummy and daddy's get married and only mummy and daddy's can kiss each other.
Boy 1: Oh, can men marry men? Boy 2 will you marry me?
Boy 2: No, that would be weird. I am going to marry my mum!

Second:

I came home from school yesterday and my mother had brought the children home. I usually get back before them and have started tea before they get back. Realising they had the chance to make me a meal they set to work. They wrote a menu, laid the table for a banquet, put on aprons to designate themselves waiters and waitresses and made a notebook to write my order in. I was banished to the living room and ordered to relax.......

Eventually I was ushered into the kitchen with all due ceremony and pomp. I sat upon the many cushioned chair at the head of the table and perused the menu, with three eager children breathing heavily over my shoulders. My order was taken (everything, of course)and the food was served with many flourishes and "madams".

The menu? Well, I started with Cheese Salad - a carefully chopped melange of cheddar, celery, cucumber and raw brocoli. I then feasted on Chocloate Spread Sandwiches, with a side of Radishes (carefully washed and chopped by the youngest daughter) and finished with Lemon Drizzle Cake (sadly five days old and rather dry). Yes, it was a feast...... of love!

Tuesday, 8 December 2009

For Gimky!

Gimky asked for a little info and pointers of where to look to find out more about Montessori. So in my infinite big-headedness I shall attempt to describe what it's all about and give a few ideas of where to look next!

Firstly, Maria Montessori was the first woman to qualify as a doctor in Italy in around 1890. She was quickly drawn into specialising in paediatrics and became involved in caring for a ward of "subnormal" children. (I know, the language of the time can be excruciating). These children were kept in unbelievably bad, horrible conditions. I imagine the ward was rather like the orphanages of Romania when they were exposed in the 1990's. The children were dirty and wild and often rocking or self-harming. They had no toys or anything to distract themselves with. Montessori was horrified and argued that they should at the very least be treated with dignity and be kept clean and have toys to play with. She brought in a set of "Froebel's gifts" and observed how the children reacted to them. The Gifts were designed for use in a kindergarten and the children responded with huge enthusiasm.



At this time Montessori started to develop some of her best known materials, such as the Movable Alphabet and the Spindle Box. Within a couple of years these children were outperforming their "normal" peers in academic tests. Montessori believed that this showed how woeful the educational system was and how it needed to be reformed to suit the children it was supposed to be educating.

The materials* are the most obvious and tangible part of the method and they are wonderful. Wooden, smooth, beautifully made, many with a built in control of error, encouraging independent learning and experimentation; they are addictive.

They are not the whole story.

The whole classroom (or home) is part of the teaching/learning that is going on. The children are not grouped in narrow one year bands but in wide three year bands that are 3-6, 6-9 and 9-12. This allows each child to grow from being the youngest and least experienced to being the oldest and most experienced in then classroom. Older children often teach younger children how to use a material. Younger children are allowed to watch older children and absorb the lessons naturally. When they are ready for the lesson it is already part of their experience. "Strugglers" such as my friend with the gaze problem are not made to feel a failure because they are given as much time to develop at their own pace and with children on the same level.

The teacher, or directress is an important part of the set up, but not as directly important as a mainstream teacher. Our most important role is to observe. It becomes second nature to be watching and listening to our charges rather than talking, talking, talking all day as in mainstream classrooms. We will watch as a child takes a familiar piece of work from the shelves, watch to see, does he sit with friends or alone, at a table or on a floor mat. Does he do the work as he was shown by the teacher or has he something else in mind? All of these pieces of information about this child are important and help us build up a picture of this child and what he needs.

We are busy giving lessons, demonstrating work to individuals or small groups or working with children who need a 1-1 lesson. However, we are often to be found, absolutely motionless, crouched behind a shelf so as not to be seen, watching a child working!

We also observe the whole classroom. Are there unused areas? Are there spaces where disputes break out? Are children engaging as we would hope or is there a physical barrier? If you look back to some of my September/October posts you will see we changed the layout of the classroom because it just wasn't working.

When a visitor walks into a Montessori classroom they often look around for the teacher expecting to be greeted and introduced to the class. What often happens instead is that a child will approach him/her and welcome them to their classroom, offer a cup of tea or to show them their favourite work. The visitor will eventually spot the teacher, usually sitting on the floor with a child or small group, utterly involved in the lesson. Children will be scattered around the room working alone or in groups but absorbed, self-directing and usually, fairly quiet!!! Whether there is a visitor or not, I enjoy these moments when I realise that not one child needs me, either to work with them or to sort out a dispute and I can sit and observe quietly.

The final part of the puzzle lies within each child. We call this his "inner teacher". Montessori believed that each child experienced a series of "sensitive periods" during his first six years of life when he would be obsessively interested in one particular thing. I believe she thought there was an order that all children followed, although it becomes rather spider webbish as they grow older. However, all children, given the right circumstances, do exhibit huge interest in tiny objects, language, order etc at around the same ages. The inner teacher leads the child to be SO interested in something that he cannot be distracted from it. The teacher's job is to notice this and work with it, providing more work to satisfy the interest.

The watchwords of a Montessori classroom, anywhere in the world are - follow the child. The child can be exposed to everything and anything and should be as part of the curriculum. However, the child is following his own invisible path and the teacher's job is to clear the way and not force him into "norms" or goals or targets that have been set by the government, or state or whatever, so they can prove that learning has taken place.

So - where to look next? I would start with the links down the side of my blog. All these wonderful people are practicing Montessorians either in their homes or schools and I learn from them daily. Particularly go to What DID we do all day? and have a look down all her links down the side. I think she is pretty well comprehensive.

I have concentrated on schools but there is a whole home side to things as well. Aside form the homeschoolers there are also people like me who send their children to school (mine don't even go to a Montessori school, bad mummy!) but who have a Montessorian home!

If anyone is interested I can do a post about how to Montessori your home, particularly for older children, There is quite a lot of info out there about babies and toddlers but not much about nine year olds!

So Gimky! I hope that has got you started at least! I have, in return started finding out about Floortime and it looks quite familiar (and nicer that ABA therapy which looks to me, as an outsider, as the type of therapy some-one who was terrified of what other adults think about their child would go for. Floor time looks suitably child-centred and child-led!)


* I am in no way connected to this company, I just thought they had a good selection of lovely pictures to look at!!

Still looking!!

The kids enjoyed Jewel so much yesterday that we played it again today.

I extended it in two ways. Firstly, I gave each child a polished stone to hold because the one boy I really wanted to be developing this skill was really not managing to get his gaze even near his hand, and I wondered if an actual, physical object might help! It did ..... marginally!

I then put the stones in a basket with the other circle time stuff - candle and pretty dragonfly with the silence poem and picture, so if a grou[ of children want to play it among themselves they can.

I haven't let anyone else be the jewel thief yet - this could get interesting!

I ran out of time to try out the words on the wall and tomorrow we are going to the forest for a walk so we may have to wait until Thursday for that revelation (or not!!)

However, I had a lovely note from the non-gazing boy's mum today in his reading diary. She said he actually appears to enjoy reading now! This is such an enormous step forwards! Hurrah!!!!!!

Monday, 7 December 2009

looking!!

Following on from the last post I have tried out some of the ideas PS.Montessori and Gimky suggested.

At circle time today we played Jewel(suggested by PS.Montessori in the comments of the last post). It was hilarious. I first had to educate the children on how to hold their jewels as some of them were either putting their noses into their hands so that they could keep an eye on it or putting their hands down so low that all I could see was the top of their heads!

When we actually started to play the game it was amazing how easy some children found it, and how hard others did. The chap I wanted to help originally found it hardest of all but I strategically looked at other children so that he wasn't first out. He literally held his head with one hand to try and keep his eyes on his hand.

Gimky suggested some good ideas. Most of them sound rather Montessori in flavour and word building is a daily activity using wooden letters. I needed to try and get him to read more that one word from left to right. This afternoon I came up with an activity I am going to try tomorrow. I have made up some large cards ( about 40cm x 25cm) each with a single word on it. I am going to blue-tack the words to the wall above an arrow pointing from left to right. He will then have to read the words following the arrows direction. The cards are so big he will have to step along from left to right as he reads. I have a good selection of simple CVC and sight words I know he can read and a lot of funny sentences prepared. I think it will help him because he is so physical. In fact, I think it might be rather popular. I'll let you know!!!

* Sorry about the lack of links but for some reason Blogger won't let me read my comments or link to anything tonight!

Tuesday, 1 December 2009

Look at me!

I have a problem child!!

Well, he's actually lovely but he really is struggling. He is finally (FINALLY) starting to read, but I have put him onto a set of books that only use sight words. I know this is rather anti-Montessori but he was so down on himself about not being able to blend that he was fulfilling his own feelings about himself. His self esteem has gone up amazingly because he can recognise words, not just from the flash cards, or in the reading book but also in other books or in notices around the room.

So, the problem.

The problem is that he cannot hold his gaze for very long. Eye contact is barely there. It almost seems painful to him. Our autistic child has far better eye contact skills than he does. However - the eye contact problem extends to words. If he looks at a word it is almost as if his eye is a magnet and the word is a magnet but they are repelled, not attracted. He can't look long enough to decode a word, which is why sight words work for him.

How, HOW do I help him. How do I help him learn to hold his gaze? HELP!!!

Saturday, 28 November 2009

It's over!

The OFSTED inspection happened and we lived through it!

We aren't supposed to say too much until the report is published but seeing as everyone who reads this either knows the result or lives hundreds, if not thousands of miles away, I think I can safely spill some of the beans!

We don't get an over-all grading because we are an independent school.....which is good. Very good in fact.

OFSTED's grades are Outstanding, Good, Satisfactory, Inadequate and Unsatisfactory.

We got Outstandings for the moral, spiritual, social and care of the children section.

We also got an Outstanding for the behaviour of the children section of the report.

We ALSO got an Outstanding for the realationships between staff, children and parents section.

So - Outstanding so far!

We got Goods for the teaching, record keeping and planning. We all were awarded Goods for our teaching (which really meands excellent!) except for The Babe, who was awarded an Outstanding for her Early years lesson (go Babe, go Babe!)

The only thing we didn't do so well on was a few of the school policies, which we were awarden an inadequate for. (Shhhh, say it quietly!).

However, we and all the parents feel that for a brand new school, that has had no help in setting up and is only just into its second year, this is a great report. The policies can be whipped into shape within a couple of months.

As one parent said, if it had been the other way around and we had had outstanding policies but inadequate teaching we would be in trouble. As it is, we have had our priorities right and this report justifies why parents and children love the school.

The inspector had some good advice for us! We need to get ready for some interesting, sparky children who will need more than just a typical education as they get older. We're ready! But thanks for the heads up!!!

So - school life can get back to normal and we can look to the future with real confidence in ourselves and each other.

Saturday, 21 November 2009

Think of us....

....on Monday afternoon, Tuesday and Wednesday.

We have finaly recieved the call form OFSTED and they are arriving this week.

Needless to say we have spent today (Saturday) working hard to get the classromms and hallway looking amazing. Last night and the night before we all stayed late printing out lesson plans and getting all our recored up to date.

I have to be able to prove that for every child there is progress being made. I also have to make clear how I am keeping track of progress and planning the next step. I know in my head, of course but I will worry until the inspection is over whether I have made it clear and whether it is all good enough......

Must go, so much still to do!